What has been taking up most of your energy over the past few days?
Conversation Cards for a Five-Minute Check-In
Choose who you are talking with and what you want to make room for. Flip one card at a time for a calm, low-pressure conversation.
A five-minute check-in
- Pick one card to start, and take turns answering if you both want to.
- Give the other person room to finish before you respond or ask more.
- Skip any card or stop whenever you like—every question is optional.
Designed for ordinary, voluntary conversations where either person can pass on a question or pause at any time without pressure.
Set 1 of 2
Is there something small from this week you would like me to hear about?
What kind of evening feels most restful to you right now?
This tool runs locally with no account or birth details required, never collects your replies, and copies or downloads only your chosen context and prompts.
Read before you begin
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Relationships
Three Open Questions for a Check-In Without Birth Details
Use the Conversation Cards tool to select a relationship context and conversation purpose, flip three open prompts without entering birth details or personal notes, and keep every answer optional.
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Relationships
One Friday Evening, Two Very Different Speeds
When one person wants company and the other wants quiet at the end of the week, smaller time-bounded invitations make room for both.
03
Relationships
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